The thought process between men & women are highly different, obviously. Men are typically “do’ers” while women take pride in being “thinkers”. The lines are kinda blurred because, well…both of these aspects are generally 50/50. Neither sex is actually smarter than the other & each individual operates differently. This is common sense, no? Of course it isn’t. I can’t stress enough how much of a believer I am in logic/common sense. It’s probably the most important characteristic ever because, well, if most of us used this tool wisely, certain parts of life would not only make more sense but would also operate much more smoothly.
Let’s take a look at three instances where common sense/logic should overcome the typical thought process…
Let’s say you meet a girl (or guy, whichever applies). You exchange numbers & begin to talk/text a great deal. You enjoy their conversation but realize you’re not the only guy (or girl) that they interact with. There are two ways your mind could travel:
Typical thought: she/he is a ho. They’re tryina fuck with everyone of the opposite sex they speak with & I have to compete with everyone for their attention but I won’t because I’m the most important person in the world.
Logic/common sense: people have/make friends out of different situations. It’s rude to typecast a person based off of what I think versus what I know & I probably shouldn’t let my emotions get the best of me.
Make sense? It should. People interact with other people daily. One’s intentions don’t fit everyone’s. For instance, when you go to the bank, do you immediately think of robbing it? I’m sure some do, but not everyone does. Same goes with people. If you’re talking to someone & your situation is cozy, that doesn’t necessarily mean they speak to everyone with the same manner. Most people just have a habit of negative thinking & it spoils possibilities. If you’re that curious, try asking. Next scenario.
Kim has been hurt by two Aquarius men in her life. They were bad relationships & she has vowed to never date Aquarius men again.
Typical thought: a person’s sign determines what type of person they are…because every person from every sign is the same. #TaurusSeason
Logic/common sense: I shouldn’t even have to explain this one. Everyone’s different, yet we all mostly have common characteristics.
People’s actions, thoughts & demeanor generally are a makeup of various things…usually spanning from how they were raised to their personal experiences. I’m a Virgo, for instance. People generally don’t know this unless I tell them because I have different characteristics that make up my personality. I also share characteristics of my parents, whom neither are Virgos but are smart people who pushed me & my brother hard & made us look at life from more than one angle.
In other words, I could have been born a Cancer & still have the same exact characteristics I have now. Astrological sign doesn’t mean shit. I got into a debate earlier with a friend of mine who said “I’m bipolar, it’s the Gemini in me” & it’s sad that people think this way. I explained to her, from my point of view, that she’s “bipolar” because she acts before she thinks & when things don’t go how she expects, she flies off the handle. She then proceeded to tell me I think like that “because I’m a Virgo”, which is absolutely retarded because I’ve known her for years & am basing what I said off of me watching how she takes things without thinking first. That would mean that everyone who jumps the gun is a Gemini. Let that sink in for a second.
Michelle wears low cut shirts to show off her huge tits. Men cat-call or stare at her chest often & it makes her uncomfortable. However, if you look at her Instagram photos, she has provocative pics everywhere.
Typical thought: men are dogs. All they want to do is fuck.
Logic/common sense: if you don’t want the attention, stop dressing like you want the attention.
I mean, seriously. I’ve heard a lot of women say they show off their assets to make other women jealous or because they like the attention. So…you want the attention, but you don’t want the attention…? Or is it that you only want the attention of someone you find attractive? Well, that’s not exactly how it works. You see, you’re trying to use sexual prowess mixed with the fact that most men think with their dicks. Bad move.
If you throw a piece of steak in the middle of a pack of wolves, what the fuck do you think will happen? Here’s a thought: be proactive to your emotions. If you want an attractive guy to notice you, try talking to him. Your vocal cords work the same as ours. Why the fuck do we have to do all of the talking? Having your tits out hoping 1 guy out of 500 notices is absolutely retarded. If you don’t want the attention, wear unflattering jeans & an extra large T-shirt. See how many men hit on you then.
My point is, I wish more people used logic/common sense than the seemingly small pool of us that do. I have faith in humans but typically everyone wants to fit in with specific groups so they adopt their ways of thinking & lifestyles. I don’t think there will ever be a time where the general population thinks for themselves again.
As a free thinker, this saddens me.
- Hype (@_maliante)